: : I really don't care about idealogoy in this case--just what is best for the kid.
Isnt that the argument anyway folks?
: If he is better off in the U.S. going to school and living with relatives than fine, however, if he wants to go back with his grandmothers and live with his father, than his wishes must be respected.
His wishes, good.
: *Estranged literally means "to turn away in feeling or affection." In this case that means the father was divorced from the mother. What gits like Gee want to plant in your mind is "unfit as a parent."
No thats your strong desire to call people who dont fall on their knees in agreement with you a 'git'.
Hence you didnt answer this